I’ll never forget that one time I was talking to this boy and I rejected him (mind you I almost gave him my address because we were supposed to go out) and he stalked and harassed me for an entire month and put my number on Craigslist (I was getting hundreds of calls and texts every day to the point my phone stopped working).
Men are crazy.
I had one throw a water bottle at me for ignoring him as I walked down the street. I was 6 months pregnant with my daughter on my way to a doctors appointment. The bottle missed me.
He’s lucky I was pregnant. I pulled my box cutter out on a dude one night on the train when I used to work nights a few years back. I scare myself sometimes because I’m gonna kill somebody one day.
I always carry my knife with me just because dudes love to act stupid so I’m prepared to cut they ass accordingly 🙂
Omg where can I get a pocket knife?
Amazon! They have these knifes disguised as keys.
I got this on amazon. Closes up and looks like a leaf. Sits right on my key chain.
WomenOnGuard.com also has a selection, many of which you can find on Amazon – but should you find yourself spending $50 on self defense weapons, WomenOnGuard.com offers free pepper spray & free shipping (as of March 14, 2018 – in case that offer ends at some point)
As someone with limited strength and physical mobility, but who can press a button pretty easily, I recommend personal keychain alarms that are set to make a VERY loud noise (140db–about the same noise level as a chainsaw). They’re about $8 a piece usually, but you can buy 3 for 16 and split them among your family and friends. If it doesn’t startle and deter the harasser/attacker, it’ll definitely get someone’s attention.
I usually end up taking most my classes in evening so I can go straight to work after. For a year or so I never carried anything with me. When the security guard at my job found out he was livid. He went and got me mace and a little pocket knife.
Within the last year I’ve had a guy follow me in the parking garage when ain’t no other cars there.
I’ve had guys waiting outside my job and no one is there to walk me to my car at 3am.
Strap up ladies cause these men do note care how scary they are, they don’t care that they intimidate you into talking to you.
But also ladies RESEARCH THE LAWS OF YOUR STATE/CITY, cause some of the things you buy may get you arrested & possibly charged; even in self defence. For example: It’s illegal in NY state to carry and use a taser or possess a knife longer than a certain length. This is also very important, shitty to find out but important.
To ALL my female followers, please be safe!
To all, please don’t stalk others. It scares us. To all, be careful if you’re being stalked. It’s scary
I’m from New York (syracuse ) and the blade cant be longer than 4in. Also its legal to have pepper spray but it cant be shipped anywhere in new york state so you cant order it offline.
I danced with a guy at a CHURCH RUN VALENTINE’S DAY DANCE for one dance and he harassed me for months because I “made him think I was in love and then just broke his heart”
I was in 8th grade but I had to chance my phone number and MOVE CHURCHES and the police had to get involved.
im in australia and all of these things are illegal. i have fibro so ‘learn self defence’ isn’t an option. i’d love a taser or pepper spray but they’re illegal. what can i do to protect myself?
spray deodorant isn’t illegal and comes in travel sizes, it hurts like hell if you get it in the eyes
Dorian WIP
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i finally got around to painting some of my ainur cards
over the past couple months ive started dissociating less and jesus fucking christ i hate this. my dysphoria used to just be even more dissociation but now im feeling it full force and i fuckin hate it
how to leave comments on fics when taking to anyone makes you so anxious ou shutdown?
valar apologist 