ok so.. apparently there’s a bug going around that it makes you block (or makes it appear that you blocked) your mutuals and that they blocked you in turn. i’m just letting you guys know that if it appears that i blocked you, that is 100% not the case and is just tumblr being funky again.
reblogs are ok and appreciated because holy shit this website is a hellhole
when you spot another gay in the wild but you’re a wlw and they’re a mlm so you aren’t used to reading each other’s flags but you still get that intense gay energy from each other and you feel the solidarity in your soul
So we gotta put in 85% of the work and have a script written with lines memorized???
85%?!?!?
Okay, you right. It’s more like 97.42%
I- 97.42%?
Bottoms: *clean out for 20 minutes, watch what they eat for the entire day, blow the top for 15 minutes, ride the top while supporting their entire body weight, deal with possibly being sore afterward for a short time*
Tops: *get hard and just shove it in, sometimes don’t help the bottoms finish after they finish because they just fall asleep*
97.42% tho
As a vers man let me tell you… topping is the easiest thing to do. Bottoming is what takes effort.
I grew up in a poly household. My mother was married to two men who loved her dearly and they were the best of friends. I use past tense due to the fact that one of my fathers passed away a few years back.
I grew up in one of the most stable, loving households I can imagine. I had tons of support from all three of my parents, I never felt alone, and I never felt confused about my parents relationship.
Were other people confused when I told them about my parents? Sure. Did it take some time for them to understand my parents relationship? Yep. And the reaction I got every single time from other kids once they understood? “That’s so awesome!”
Growing up in a poly house did not hurt me, confuse me, or make my life difficult. It sure as hell wasn’t abusive.
Healthy poly relationships do not hurt children.
I really want some more recognition for poly relationships. This is a lovely post and a step in the right direction. Couples consisting of two people can be dysfunctional. It’s not just poly relationships.
valar apologist 