What she means: Reading yaoi does not make you an ally to the LGBT+ community in any way. Furthermore, assigning the “seme (top, dominant, masculine)” and “uke (bottom, submissive, feminine)” roles to gay men in fiction–and sometimes real life–is blatantly heteronormative. However, heterosexual girls and women producing and consuming LGBT+ content because they enjoy the dynamic between two characters rather than fetishizing them and describing the production/consumption as “sin” is perfectly acceptable and doesn’t make you a homophobic dumpster fire.